MC STORY : The Miracle Wedding of Christian & Vanie

Many people asked me, which one is your most favorite or most memorable wedding reception by far? To be honest, i cant answer one, because each wedding hold their own beautiful story. Apart from the lovely venue and decor, the stunning dresses and the euphoria of the event, for me as a Wedding MC, the story of the bride & groom themselves and the presence of their loved ones are more important to make a wedding day meaningful and memorable.

This time, let me share with you the Miracle Wedding of Christian & Vanie. One of my most memorable wedding as a Wedding MC.

It was a sunny day when i reached Bali in early December 2017. I remember i went straight to the wedding venue for the Technical Meeting right after i landed. Well, usually i don’t normally go for technical meeting in Bali, not because i dont want to, but because the time doesnt really permit and often clash with the flight time. But since the venue was’t really far from the place that i stayed, so i dropped by and joined the Technical Meeting.

*FYI, i will always come for Technical Meeting in Jakarta. If the timing doesnt not match, i will arrange to meet up with the couple and the Wedding Organizer separately. Why? Because i want to know the bride & groom personally, i want to be friends with them and the organizer. So when i MC their event, i can feel that i’m celebrating my friend’s big day too!

Anyway, let’s continue our story. The TM went well, and Vanie (the bride to be) asked me to pray for the weather too. I was like, ‘Chill babe, it’s super sunny, and the organizer said it’s been sunny the whole week’

So i went back to my villa, enjoyed a plate of Nasi Babi Guling and get some rest for the big day tomorrow.

To my surprised, i was awakened by a big thunder. And the first thing came to my mind was, ‘Oh God, please stop the rain for Christian & Vanie’, and i went back to sleep. When i woke up again, it was drizzling, and still drizzling when i have to go to the venue at 2-ish.

The first thing i did when i arrived was to enter Vanie’s room and said hello!

J : Van, you look so stunning!

V : Thank you Jend. How’s outside is it still raining?

J : Yeah, still drizzling, but dont worry, we still have 3 more hours to go!

V : Please help us to pray ya Jend! I even closed my curtain so i wont see the rain. So frustrating =(

J : Do you engage ‘pawang hujan’ / rain handler (someone who could stop the rain) ?

V : We did not. We asked them what do they do in order to stop the rain? The ‘Pawang’ said, we pray.
So, if he can only pray, why do we have to pay more for something that we can do too? 

*i was some moved by their faith btw! not many couple or family will risk their big day.

J : True, we can prayy too! we have Jesus. Let’s pray & cheer up! We still have time..

And i went downstairs to get my make up done.

Almost 2 hours later, the rain still pours, i was still optimistic, but had doubt as well. Since the deco people need to stop and cover all the tables, i was thinking, if the rain stopped on time, will they have enough time to decorate all the tables?

Right after im done with my make up, i went up again. This time i went to visit Christian, and to have my pre-dinner in his villa, since all the food was there. I chatted with Christian & his 3 bestman, they were concerned as well, but still optimistic & hoped for the best too.

Not long after that the photographer came in and did some photoshoot with them, and suddenly the organizer knocked the door and asked Christian to come to prepare for something. I was like, OMG it’s almost holy matrimony time and it’s still drizzling.

When i have that thought. there’s another knocked on the door. It’s the bridesmaids!

One of them said : Hi All, are you guys busy? If not, would you three come with us to pray together? Some of Christian & Vanie’s friends are already downstairs. We will pray for the rain to stop. 

I was like, Awww.. such a sweet friendship. They dont complain about the situation but pray about it. I’m so moved once again. 

and so, The bestman went down, i finished my meals, and fix my cue-cards while waiting for my MC partner to come.. and it was still drizzling.

When i went down, all the families have lined up for the Holy Matrimony procession. I asked the organizer, ‘Can we wait a bit more?’

The organizer said, ‘We cant, we are so late already, The show must go on’

and amazing thing start to happen..

It was still raining when the event started, but when the family walked in and the praise and worship starts, the rain slowly begin to stop.

I finally joined the Holy Matrimony & sit at the back, and it was one the craziest moment of my life. i looked up to the sky, and it’s a BRIGHT sky up there. But when i looked straight far in front, back, left and right, we are surrounded by BIG BLACK CLOUD.

the only bright place is that villa! 

SUMPAH ANEH BANGET! Bentuk villa-nya kotak, dan cuman di kotak persegi itu terangnya!

and so, everyone was happy! The holy matrimony went well, the reception went well too! and another weird thing is happening.

When me and my partner about to close the event, suddenly i felt something dripping on my cue-card. I signal the bride & groom and my partner to wrap up soon right after.

and when we said THANK YOU for the LAST TIME, it started to rain. and five minutes after we ended, the rain started to pour heavily again.

I was like. THIS IS SUPER CRAZY! THE RAIN STOPPED JUST WITHIN THAT TIME-FRAME. If it’s NOT Miracle Wedding, then i dont know what is?

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MC – JENITA DARMENTO  // MC Partner – RONNY HERESKY // Venue – VILLA PHALOSA 
Wedding Organiser & Decor – ITS TRUE WEDDING // Photography – APEL PHOTOGRAPHYBride’s Dress – LYNPRISMAGARMENT // Groom’s Suit – ASSEMBLE SG // Bride’s MUA – CATLEYA DEA // Wedding Cake – SUGAR LEGACY BALI // Calligraphy – BASANTARA LETTERS 

 

Dress issue

Udah lama nih ga update hidup..

well. sbenernya sihh gw bingung mau taro judul antara Update Hidup atau Seputar kerja, karena dari minggu lalu, bisa di bilang gw kerja dari hari senin-minggu dan bangun di jam yg sama.. yaitu 8.30 pagi.. tapi di pikir2, sudahlah taro judul ini aja, since emang mau post voto2 dress cantik. muahahaha.

sebernya 8.30 pagi itu sudah cukup anugrah buat gw sihh. soalnya kalo nanya colig2 lain. biasa.nya jam 6 mrk udah bangun.. since gw kerja.nya mulai jem 9.15, dan jarak rumah ke kantor itu hanya 15 menit.. jadi cukup bngt buat bangun, mandi bebek, siap2 dan lngsung capcus ke kantor.. hehe.. tapi karena biasa weekend gw bangun jem 10. jadi gw berasa sama aja kyk kerja biasa karena ttp harus bangun 8.30..

minggu ini cukup pack karena gw ada 2 job emcee di hari sabtu dan minggu.. hehe..

Yang Pertama..

Hari sabtu lalu, Gw emcee buat 1 lovely couple di Mandarin Oriental Singapore, karena kebetulan pesta.nya adalah wedding lunch, jadi ya harus bangung pagi dehh.. karena briefing & rehearsal acara mulai jem 10.30. Puji Tuhan acara berjalan dngn lancar walopun masih tetep sedikit deg-deg-an pas maju ke panggung.. dan acara nikahan di singapore tuh biasanya makan meja.. jadi pas elo ngomong tuh, berasa bngt semua attention ke elo. haha.. puji Tuhan tahun ini sama tahun depan makin bnyk job emcee.nyaa.. bisa kenal banyak orang, dan bisa asah kemampuan cuap2 lebih lagi.. ahahaha. tapi yahh minus.nya elo harus siapin buanyak dress. hahaha.. ada couple yg kasih gw dress buat emcee, dan itu sangat membantu sekali, jadi gw ga pusing cocokin baju sama tema.. kalo couple.nya ga kasih baju.. harus digging2 baju dan cari baju lagi deh. haha..

nah.. buat pesta kemarin.. kebetulan gw ada bikin baju sama salah satu kakak.nya temen gw.. bukan bikin special untuk acara ini sihh.. kebetulan aja gw emang demen sama model.nyaa.. dan ternyata sampe.nya pas bngt 2 minggu sebelum acara wedding ini.. dan lebih pas.nya lagi.. tema.nya cocok dngn baju.nya.. yaudah dehh. lngsung pake aja! hahaha.

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Gimana mnurut kalian? hehehehehe.

Yang kedua..

Hari minggu kemarin, gw emcee buat acara Graduation development program.

apa sih development program itu? itu tuh sekolah buat mba2 TKI kita di singapore, ada sekolah dari SMP, SMA, sekolah keterampilan komputer, bahasa inggris dan kelas entrepreneurship (yang di dukung oleh Universitas Ciputra).

sekolah ini di bangun oleh2 orng2 yg passionate sama masa depan mba2 TKI yg dsini.. nama group mrk adalah MTM (Media Transformation Ministry) dan FAST (Foreign Domestic Worker Association) intinya mrk mau equip mba2 ini dngn pendidikan, dan berharap dngn pendidikan yg mrk kasih bisa at least merubah masa depan mba2 ini.. yah at least ga jadi PRT se-umur hidup.. setidak.nya bisa jadi admin di kantor2.. atau bahkan bs buka usaha kecil2an sendiri pas balik kampung.

salut bngt sama mba2 ini.. karena di tengah kesibukan mrk urus kerjaan rumah tangga, msk masih bs atur jadwal buat belajar.. sekolah.nya sih hanya seminggu sekali aja setiap hari minggu. tapi ya mrk ttep hrs belajar tiap hari, apalagi kalo mau dket exam.. *mrk ambil kesetaraan paket B dan C* Lebih salut.nya lagi.. mrk masih ada waktu dongg buat latian untuk perform di graduation mrk sendiri. hahaha.. hebat deh pokoknya pahlawan devisa kita.

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Hal yg menyentuh gw kmrn tuh, bnyk juga loh majikan2 yg peduli dan mau hadir ke acara graduation PRT mereka.. mrk voto bersama.. kasih congrats.. bilang have a great party after this.. dan bahkan ada yg kasih hadiah! gila2ann dehh.. bikin terharu banget..

di acara itu di hadirin bnyk tamu kehormatan dari embassy indonesia.. bnyk juga ketua dari badan2 sosial indonesia dan singapore juga.. karena acara ini bisa di anggap acara yg cukup formal.. jadi ya kita semua harus pake batik / kebaya dongg.. dan tau ga sih.. gw tuh ga punya batik / kebaya sama sekali.. =(

yes.. i have many pretty dresses.. tapi ga punya produk kebanggan indonesia sendiri.. sangat memalukan.. hauhaua.. alhasil, gw minjem dehh 1 dress batik dr temen gw.. begini nih bentuk.nyaa..

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dan baru aja sekarang gw liat koleksi kebaya di Zalora, di bawah ini salah satu.nya

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Baguss yaaa.. hehehe.. di singapore tuh susah cari batik.. dan kalo gw balik indo pun biasanya udah ga sempet belanja2.. dan kyk.nya skrng gw akan coba ubek2 si Zalora ini deh untuk beli Kebaya.. jadi bisa beli online dan nitip kluarga gw deh kalo ada yg pas mampir ke singapore.. =)

Update Hidup 1

Hi semua..

karena ini considered blog baru, gw kasih title update hidup aja kali yaa untuk cerita keseharian kehidupan gw. hehe..

Pertama, gw mau cerita kalo kaki gw sakit bngt.. lebih tepatnya musce pain sii..

bukan karena olahraga tapi.nyaa..

jadi ceritanya lift di apartment gw mati kemarin pagi.. pas gw pencet2 ya ga nyala aja itu si tombol lift.nyaa..

gw udah nunggu sekitar 10 menitan. tetep itu tombol ga nyala kalo di pencet.

sampe akhirnya gw memutuskan untuk balik rumah dulu dan duduk d sofa bentar, dan balik lagi buat pencet2.. tapi nihil hasil.nyaa..

yaudah dehh. gw pikir. turun tangga aja dehh. siapa tau pas sampe lantai 20an, lift.mya udah nyala lagi..

ternyata keberuntungan ga bersanding di gw kemarin pagi itu..

akhirnya gw turun tangga aja dong dari lantai 31 ke lantai dasar..

and you know what? lngsung gemeteran aja dong kaki gw.. shaking2 ga jelas gt.. lngsung lemess deh pokok.nyaa.

since dsini semua pake public transport dan jalan kaki, yah gw tetep jalan ke kantor dan naik train ke kantor..

walopun tadi.nya mau naik taxi sihh.. tapi since gw pikir msh ga gt cape walopun udh gemeteran. gw pikir gpp deh.. jalan aja kyk biasa ke kantor.

dan tadi pagi dongg. pas bngn tidurr. aduhaii rasanyaa.. kyk abis lari 5 kilo mann.. sakit bngt klo mau turun tangga lagi. Trauma bngt dehh kalo mau pencet lift skrng. hauhaua..

Kedua. 

Gw bakal ngemcee pertama kali di local wedding singapore.. dan kali ini agak drama cerita.nya. huahua..

normally gw trima job2 MC gini tuh dari jauh2 hari.. dan biasa.nya orng indo yg approach gw.. biasanya di refer2 gt dr temen ke temen.

nah. kali ini tuh colig gw yg married. orang singapore.. sebenernya dia udah approach gw dari bulan lalu, which menurut gw udah last minute juga.. helloo man, sebulan lagi, masa MC aja belom ada..

ya jelas banget gw menolak saat itu. karena last minute dan partner gw akan ngemcee pake bahasa mandarin. ya dongg.. emang gw cinaa.. tapi kalo bahasa cinaa.. gw ga pahamm.. bener deh, ga pake boong. gw bener2 ga mau ngemcee acara yg gw ga familiar sama bahasa.nya..

ya iyalahh.. gw mana tau apakah dia udah selesai-in sentence dia apa belom.. dan ga bisa conversation juga kan.. pokoknya nggak banget dehh.. akhirnya gw tolak dia bulan lalu..

eh, dia nanya lagi dan lagi dong.. ada 2-3 kali lagi abis itu.. gw tetep bilang nggak.. gw ga confident kalo partner gw pake bahasa mandarin..

sampai sabtu lalu, dia whatsapp gw lagi pagi2 buta nanyain mau apa nggak.. ya akhirnya gw bilang iya dehh.. dngn cukup terpaksa karena gw kasian sama dia.. katanya ga ada sama sekali yg bisa ngemcee.. udah gt dia masih harus urusin bnyk hal. seperti undangan yg belom abis kesebar.. yes.. 1 minggu sebelum acara.. dan undangan belom kesebar semua.nya. dia super last minute abis mann.. rundown acara nikahnya aja belom ada.. march in song belom di cut. dll. dll..

sbenernya gw juga menjerumuskan diri sihh.. since bahasa.nya kurang nyambung, sama rundown acara belom kelar.. gahhh.. tapi yasudahlahh. itung2 pengalaman deh buat jem terbang gw.. bantu doain ya temands.. biar semua acaranya lancar sabtu ini..

Ketiga

Gw lagi galau bngt sama kerjaan gw, well ini sebenernya bukan cerita baru sii.. haha..

jadi ceritanya skrng gw lagi cari kerja baruu.. tapi aneh.nya.. udah hanpir 2 bulan gw kirim resume.. kok gw belom ada yahh yg manggil gw buat interview? hauhaua..

padahal kan skrng udah ada pengalaman kerjaa.. dulu pas fresh grad kyk.nya dapet chance interview.nya lebih gampang.. hmmpp.. apa ini gara2 pemerintah singapore yah yg mempeketat foreigner buat kerja dsini?

gahhh.. gara2 si colig gw yg mau kawin ini juga, kerjaan gw jadi makin bnyk.. jd makin males deh gw kerja minggu ini. huahua..

jd ada panggilan buat belajar bahasa di china atau pulang indo dan belaja ngemcee sama mba becky tumewu.. haha.

hidup oh hiduppp..

Ke-empat

Tapi selalu ada alasan untuk mengucap syukurr.

Kenapa?? Karena 10 hari lagi gw ke jepang! horaiii.. ga sabar bngt.. akhir.nya dateng juga liburan buat tahun ini.. kalo ada rekomendasi2 makanan atau tempat2 disana.. tolong kasih tau gw yaa. hehehe.